Personal Finance in Paradise – Debt Elimination Series: Mindset

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Debt elimination strategies should always start with how you think about money and how you use it.

I feel that it is easy to blame ourselves for the debt situation that we are in. it is easy to be the victim and take no responsibility for what we have done to ourselves. Does take a bit more courage, and small tasks to step up and take real responsibility to pay off all of the debt we have accumulated.

At the same time,  we have a chance to remember that we have more than 80% of the people in the world.  It is better to focus on what is going right in our lives, and to appreciate what we already have what we have right now.

Marie Forleo has a great video about how to have a mental shift around money. I find it really helpful because the six steps she talks about are ways all of us should be reminded about how we can make small changes in mindset. It’s always the small things that can do on a daily basis to feel a little bit better about our situation.

Carol Dweck also has a great book called Mindset. Its main focus is to teach us about the growth mindset. This is where we look at the positive side of the situation, not in a sense where we pretend that the negative isn’t there, and seeing the situation or how it can make us be a better person.

It is a chance to grow from the struggle, and a chance to work through the problem to be a better person. Paying one small debt, choosing not to buy a cookie or a DVD, and finding ways to save money will help build new habits and get us one step closer to financial freedom.

Money is a powerful force that can destroy you if you let it. You have to learn to control your money instead of letting it control you. If you don’t, you will never get out of debt and will continue to dig a deeper hole.

Be honest with yourself, and and really examine the reasons why you are and that. Be aware of your desires and you wants.

Author: Michael Subido @ Personal Finance in Paradise

my name is Mike and I live in Honolulu Hawaii. Living in paradise has his trials money happens to be one of them. I've had my financial problems, I've probably gone through all the major ones including student debt, credit card debt, dealing with creditors, and cosigning loans. I found myself in about $66,500 in debt in 2010 and over 28 months I had paid off close to $40,000 of debt making about $25,000 a year gross income. That's pretty hard to do considering the cost of living in paradise. After that I was able to purchase a car in cash, put away some savings, and also get married. What I want for you is to learn from my experiences so that you do not make the same mistakes. I heard it said that smart people learn from experiences and wise people learn from others experiences, and my goal for you is to become wise and teach others to be wise.

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